What do you do when your boyfriend is a selfish, immature, reckless idiot?

I am currently wondering the exact same thing, so if you know the answer, please let me know. He is actually extremely smart–which is what makes this entire situation sooooo not permissible.

To make a long story short, he got his 2nd DUI the other night. In my state, because he refused to be breathalized, that is a minimum mandatory 20 days in jail–MINIMUM. Great, I’m now dating an unemployed criminal!

So utterly disappointing…I am not sure how I am supposed to feel about it and I don’t know entirely how I feel about it either. Part of me says “it’s not like he did something TO YOU and you still love him and that’s all that matters.” The other part of me can’t get over how FUCKING ANGRY I am with him. How can someone so smart do something so so SO STUPID!?

To be completely honest (and why wouldn’t I be granted the cloak of cyber anonymity?), I might be inclined to go out and fuck someone tonight. Now which boy to call……